At the end of the second video, I say if you are man and you still think you are simple after watching this video please leave me reasons for why you are not simple. I meant to say, please leave me three reasons why you feel you are simple. My bad, didn't notice the mistake until today. Enjoy the video, it's hilarious.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Buzz-Kill of the Week: "Men Are Simple"
I'm simple but I'm not simple-minded...
1. I don't need a lot in life to complete me as I didn't come from a lot (of money) but I was given a lot (in love).
2. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I'm not out there giving riddles when I speak!
3. What you see is what you get. I'm not showing people different versions of me trying to impress them - I'm me 100% of the time.
Dammit! Those are good reasons, here's my comeback:
1. How do people know that? Do you tell them or do you assume that they know? Remember, ppl. don't know things about you unless they're your friends or until you tell them. Meaning, you still aren't simple, no one knows you didn't come from a lot of money so you don't need a lot of it. Heck, I've known you for months & that's the first I've heard of that.
2. Are you sure? I mean that's great that you're direct but it doesn't mean you don't send mixed signals. I'm hard pressed to believe that you always tell someone that you like them or that you don't like them. Not calling you a tale teller (I don't call ppl. liars), but, there isn't one female who you never actually said "I don't like you" to? Maybe you just didn't call her back instead of being honest. Or maybe there's that girl who you did like but were too afraid to tell her b/c you didn't want to be rejected. This further adds to your complexity.
3. That's true. In my interactions with you, you're always very real. However, as people we do put on different masks to fit our current environments. You can always be real but that still doesn't make you simple. In fact your realness actually makes you more complex because not everyone is so straightforward & to the point. That's a gift that I admire you for, but honey, it makes you one in a million.
All in all face it, although you're a good brotha you still aren't simple. Your reasons are great but only ppl. who know you personally know those things. And even those ppl. can't peg you everytime. There are things that have made you the way you are, and only you know how & why they affected you. In your mind you may be simple, but, to me you are more complex than ever.
Point taken...
I only say these things cuz I love ya, Mr. Smart Guy! I don't want you as a man to sell yourself and think you are simple.
Girl you be rapping it up OK!!! hahahah thats all I have to say about this
OMG! Gurl, you had me dying laughing! Love the energy and the blog design!
@md30737,
Thanks Miss. I certainly try.
@Mizrepresent,
Thanks sweets! I appreciate it.
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